Friends come and go. Most of the times we drift apart from each other due to both parties not making enough effort or only one party making the effort while the other does not reciprocate and eventually it dies off. And there are times when it ends badly, with a fight or at least with displeasure. Of course we do also grow out of each other - we find that we don't 'fit' well with each other anymore. We run out of topics to say, where we are unwilling to share the things that happen in our lives.

It is sad when someone you used to know so well/can talk and laugh with so easily becomes a stranger. Instead of laughing together, talking excitedly and enjoying each other's company, you exchanged awkward silences and brief words. You find that he/she is not the first person (or at least the first few) that you go to to share your joy and/or your happiness. What happens then ? Do we keep trying, or do we let go ?

I think that we more actively seek out new friends when we feel like we're drifting apart from people we were once close with because of a need for attachment, for companionship, for emotional safety and whatever else. It also seems to bring about a certain freshness to your life, where you share experiences with new people, where you start learning about each other and basically, just starting all over again. A fresh start. but here's the question: after the novelty wears off, will you still stay on ?

I don't write well, I never really did. My sentences flow awkwardly and my thoughts are all jumbled but I try to organize it by typing it down and arrange it in a way that makes more sense. So forgive me if you're reading this post and you don't get what I mean or you think my writing (or typing in this case) is atrocious hahahahahaha.